The Big Black Elephant In The Room

Cuckolding is a beautiful and loving lifestyle. I love it, and I have seen so much support in the community and love to see all the different ways couples express their love through this dynamic. One big flavor of cuckolding is of course interracial cuckolding with a black bull and white wife. This is almost so popular in cuckolding to be considered a default. I have seen a lot of people engage with this in healthy and racist ways alike. I do not have all the answers but I thought I could shed some light on how I see this dynamic. This will be the way I see the intersection of race and cuckolding in our modern era so lets begin.

Aesthetics

First things first are the aesthetics of interracial and for that we can first go to porn. I do not watch cuckolding porn, I know sounds crazy but it doesn’t do anything for me. It misses so much of the dynamic I would much rather focus on 2 people getting off together. Given my interests it would be assumed all of the porn I watch is black man white woman, this is untrue. I watch a huge amount of porn with beautiful black women. I personally love contrast so I love to see dark skin against white skin, built body against petite, skinny body against voluptuous, and any other mixes and matches you can do. If this was Star Trek and we had blue and green people I know I would be into that as well. The aesthetics I think is the easiest to understand in cuckolding because its simply and example of opposites attract. While I do love seeing opposites attract, I also love the black aesthetic. I think most people do as well, which is why you see any competition for body or beauty always has everyone extremely tan. The darker skin helps with lighting to see parts of the muscles and poll after poll shows that dark skin is attractive to the masses. While some may disagree with me here, those of us that do find the dark skin attractive love to see these dark men with our wives. I think the fact that so many cuckolds happen to be white and into seeing black men with their wives shows us that many men also want their wives to have someone different than themselves, and the more degrees of difference, the more we feel as though we are supporting our women truly exploring her sexuality. Whatever the reason is, seeing my woman taken by a tall dark and handsome man puts the mast up on my ship.

Culture

The aesthetics alone aren’t the only thing that attracts me to seeing my woman take a BBC, there are also cultural aspects to it. I am American so I can only talk about this culture but I have done some traveling abroad. Let’s be real about this, black culture is the bedrock of modern America culture. While the inner academic in me is screaming “BLACK CULTURE ISN’T ONE THING!” this isn’t an academic paper so I can speak more colloquially. While there is no unified black culture, there are many aspects of our culture that have been given to us by American blacks. All music today can trace its roots back to slaves singing in the Southern fields and through the explosion of 20th century jazz. From this wellspring the USA has dominated the world culturally and athletically as well. Going back to literally Hitler when Jesse Owens dominated at the 1934 Olympics and through the 20th century. Wherever we saw segregation end, we saw black men and women excelling in these sports. Because blacks have such a high place in entertainment, it would follow that the appeal of “black culture” would become more and more attractive. I think this is why so many of the stereotypical black aesthetics are attractive, they subconsciously point to the entertaining, the musical, the physical, and the sensual.

Liberation

So with all that I just said, why didn’t “black culture” incorporate bankers or businessmen or the owners of the teams and record labels? I think we all know the answer to this, white supremacy. See, one thing people who don’t study history don’t realize, is that every single institution of education was explicitly white supremacist until Hitler, and then academia took a good long look in the mirror and reflected on the logical conclusion of their racist ideas and they changed. This change was not immediate and it took another 2 decades after WW2 to get integration, and many of those people who grew up with segregation are still around today. Because of these factors, the opportunities for blacks in America were only what the white man allowed and this shaped the culture blacks have today. Is there some inherent biological reason blacks have rap in their culture and whites have Ivy League schools? No of course not! The reason things developed this was is all social and cultural and the amount of black people today breaking into these fields and redefining their culture is only expanding more and more every day. So what does that have to do with cuckolding? Well one big thing these systems of white supremacy told our society was that whites and blacks don’t mix. Now this is bullshit to such a level I don’t think I have to explain in 2021 but whats really dumb about this whole thing is how sexually asymmetrical it is. White slave owners would rape their black slaves without a care in the world and even Thomas Jefferson has many many black descendants today. There were miscegenation laws on the books until they were challenged during desegregation and of course, it was a white man and a black women. I highly doubt the courts would have been as receptive to a black man and a white women. While the laws against interracial relationships have gone, the stigma has not and its most negative targeting is that of white women who are attracted to black men. I saw this from my days in grade school right up to today in the workplace. Hearing these remarks has always brought out the contrarian in me. Why is it unattractive if a girl is into black guys? Whats wrong with it? Why do you care? Are you jealous? And the funniest part of all this is, the answer normally goes back to white men being insecure about their own sexual prowess and intimidated by the black man’s. Because of this I want to rebel against that system and that leads me to supporting the white women who go black in the face of all this pressure. Seeing them look at the pressures that tell them no and then they still go after what they want is so attractive I can’t help but be aroused by it. This is why is not just a black thing or a cultural thing, this is liberation. The fact that it is so taboo, makes me want it so much more.

Final Thoughts

So am I the liberator of the black race in America because I support white women going black? No. Most cuckolds are privileged white men and this kink satisfies us and our normally white wealthy women. However, moving to accepting this dynamic in cuckold relationships I hope can show how backwards racism is. There are a lot of men in this kink who are just racist and will claim the reason they are into this kink is because the Jews have corrupted their mind with porn and pop culture. This is really stupid and goes to the racists insecurities and inability to take any personal responsibility. For those of us who aren’t racist, this lifestyle is so satisfying because its aesthetically pleasing, culturally powerful, and it provides sexual liberation for all of us who are told we shouldn’t be doing this. I am sure if the tides of history were different, if Africa developed gunpowder and sails and started to enslave nordic vikings for 400 years, we would have a very different outlook on all this but we don’t. This is the history we have, this is the culture we live in, and this is what puts the wind in my sails. One last note, for all the men that say I am promoting degeneracy and that nonsense, if there was no racism and we all treated each other as equals, this kink wouldn’t be breaking any taboos and the attraction and thrill would subside, but none of you actually care about that, you just hate black people. So thanks for reading this far, I appreciate the view and any hate mail you’d like to send my way.

3 Comments

  1. No hate post.
    You are absolutely right.
    Taboos are broken that should not be taboos at all.
    In Germany, it’s completely different.
    There, black people are generally more admired.

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  2. Okay so hi, actual black person here. This was almost psychotically pseudo informed. Most of this is pointlessly untrue and weird misrememberings of history and context. I don’t know if I should even be mad at the specifics or how you actually said all that shit about this somehow being anti racist. What you’re talking about, racial fetishization and being all over that “taboo” is just racist pure and simple. At best this is a masochistic racism where your delusional narrative isn’t even that far from the explicit racists, you just spin it as a positive. Going back to James Baldwin PoC have talked about this issue in private, the pain and dehumanization, the othering and scripting, the myths and lies. You put an academic spin on this for some reason but no, you’re no different. And honestly it makes me want to vomit that you would front like this, now of all times. There’s a real problem of white people taking what was already a deeply painful “fetish” and now sanitizing it, maybe to feel enlightened or get attention or feel like it makes them special. This crap is bleeding out and getting harder to ignore as a man of color. It’s draining to deal with this crap, for it to pop up more and more because people like you don’t think it’s racist or even something to be proud of, or god forbid that it’s helping. You’re not, and shame on you, not in or about sex but as a human being for being so twisted to make my pain and my oppression a fun sexual joke for you to ignorantly warp and specialize and dehumanize. It makes me so upset, and it makes fantasize not about touching a white woman (amazing, I know) but about having one month or even one week of my life where it’s like creeps like you don’t exist. Every time you do this it’s like glass cutting into my skin. Please, please stop.

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    1. I came here specifically to troll the author, but damn, there is no need for my petty insults or juvenile teasing when you so eloquently sum up everything I could possibly want to say on this topic. Good on you.

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